Posts Tagged ‘Law of Attraction’

Mindset is the Key to Getting What You Want

Monday, May 17th, 2010

How many times have we all heard that mindset is the key to manifesting what you want?  Do you believe it?  Do you consciously work on your mindset?

Or are you like so many who are at the mercy of the thoughts they think… you know just allowing any old thought to take up residence in your head.  I for one, have often times been guilty of letting these old thoughts freeload in my head.  Not anymore!  I have thrown the bums out.

Recently, I have had some health challenges and have not given my blog much attention.  I had to undergo some medical tests and there was some question about how healthy my heart was.  My doctor asked me to consult with a cardiologist.  I immediately sprang into action after making the appointment. I was not going to sit by and worry about my heart.  I made a conscious decision to visualize the heart I wanted.  I began talking to my heart, thanking it for pumping and keeping me going all these years, despite how I treated it.  While visualizing a healthy heart, I held my hands over my heat and let the energy flow from my hands into my heart.  I did this every day until I saw the cardiologist.

The cardiologist looked over the tests and said, “This is a healthy heart.”  None of the conditions my doctors were concerned about were there.  I do have to have a stress test but the news was so much better than my doctors expected.

Mindset is powerful.  I could have spent my time worrying about my heart and creating stress which would help to create a self fulfilling prophecy or I could focus on what I want and shape my reality.

By keeping my focus on what I wanted, a healthy heart, I was able to raise my vibration to be in harmony with that thought.  All things are created twice, once in our mind as a thought and again in reality.  By keeping the focus on a healthy heart, I was able to bring that about in reality.

When working on creating your reality, this does not mean that you do nothing.  You still need to do the work. If all you do is sit and visualize, you will not manifest what you want. Action is the glue that binds thought and results together. For me that meant eating healthy, taking vitamins and minerals and being mindful of the things within my control to be heart healthy.

In the end, time will pass but what reality do you want to live in?  One of doom and gloom or one of optimism and abundance?

It really is in your hands.

“Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure. “ ~ Oprah Winfrey

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How Much is Enough?

Tuesday, December 23rd, 2008

How much is enough? How much do you need to feel like you are living in prosperity and abundance? Do you know? Do you think it is even possible?

I used to say that I need more money. I always needed more money. I was always coming from a position of lack. I used to joke that I had a disease called “fundsalow“: you know Funds Are Low! And that’s exactly what I got. I was always short of money!

So you can imagine my surprise when I first read You Were Born Rich by Bob Proctor and read that if you were to ask for “lotsa money” that that would not work because the subconscious mind does not know what “lotsa” is. The subconscious mind must accept whatever thoughts it is given and acts on it.

So I began to really take this lesson to heart. It is important to decide how much money you want to have. And dream big. Decide what it is you want and then ask yourself, why do you want this money? It is not enough to say that you want the money to live a better life. What will make your life better? Is it a new car? Bob recommends that you take your time with this and take out a piece of paper and write down all the things you want to spend the money on in the coming year. This is a perfect time to do this! Include your rent or mortgage, bills, vacation, savings…whatever you are going to spend money on.

Just thinking about what you want won’t make this happen. You must move into action! Find a coach to help you get what you want! Make 2009 the beginning of abundance and prosperity for you. You can do this!

If you are interested in finding out more about how to do this process and what Bob Proctor recommends on how to make this transition from a poverty mindset to a prosperity consciousness, sign up for my mailing list.  You can reach me by using the contact page on this blog.

I’d really love to begin a dialogue with you on how you are handling the issue of how much is enough?

If you want a free PDF copy of the You Were Born Rich book, email me at SusanBonfiglio.LifeSuccessConsultants.com and I will add you to the list and get your PDF copy right out to you. If you are interested in studying, Bob Proctor’s You Were Born Rich System, go to my website, www.SusanBonfiglio.LifeSuccessConsultants.com to find out more about it.

Susan Bonfiglio

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You Are More Powerful Than You Think!

Wednesday, November 19th, 2008

I am reading a wonderful book by Gregg Braden, The Divine Matrix.  He presents 20 keys for conscious creation. It is another way of deepening our understanding of the Law of Attraction and the higher Law of Vibration.

So many of us do not see how powerful we are.  We are content to sit back and think that we are powerless.  What can I do, I am only one person? There is so much we can do.  John Wheeler, a Princeton Physicist says that the simple act of looking at something changes it.  We are not the audience, nor are we living our lives as if someone in the heavens is controlling everything we do.  We are co-creators of our lives.

What if you lived your life by that reality?  What would you change?  What would you think about?  How would your life be different?

I think this is great news!  To me this means that we can change our lives.

What do you spend time thinking about?  What beliefs do you hold about your life?  I would love it if you shared your thoughts about this with me.

Susan Bonfiglio

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This Week in Review

Wednesday, September 3rd, 2008

I’ve found some great posts on having a prosperity consciousness that you might want to take a look at:

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  • The Law of Attraction And Wealth – Once you have decided, it is time to begin developing prosperity consciousness. That is, you need to begin acting in your daily life as though you are …

  • Your Ecomic Prosperity – Prosperity Consciousness Explained. You transform your ideas into physical reality all the time. Were you aware of that? …

  • Positive Thinking: Just to keep you smiling all the time! – Decide to have Prosperity- Consciousness instead of poverty- Consciousness from today itself. You are your own best friend. Therefore, love yourself the …

Susan Bonfiglio

 

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The Secret Visualization Tool

Tuesday, August 19th, 2008

A prosperity consciousness was not something I grew up with. I grew up with statements like, “what do you think your last name is: Rockefeller!!!” or “money doesn’t grow on trees.” We all have paradigms about money. We all have messages we were told about money. What were yours?

 

I never really thought much about money. I have spent the first half of my career in the helping professions as a adolescent counselor and as a therapist. I used to joke that going to social work school was an entrance into poverty. And I suppose I really believed that but didnt’ care to change the focus of my work.

 

Bob Proctor helped me reframe my thinking about money. He said, “Money is only used for two things. One, it’s to make you comfortable, and the more comfortable you are, the more creative you will become. And the other purpose is it enables you to extend the service you provide far beyond your own presence.”

 

And he is right. It is hard to have a giving spirit, a spirit of opulence, when you are worried if you can keep your house or pay your bills. So many people today are struggling to make ends meet, to change the way they think about money.

 

The people from The Secret put out a visualization tool that I found very powerful. I include it here in case you want to revisit and revise your money paradigm.

 

Susan Bonfiglio

 

 

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Abundance is All Around

Thursday, August 14th, 2008

Abundance is here for all of us, we just have to know and believe that. Do you believe that?

We are all looking for time and money freedom. And it seems today, we have precious little of both. But what if we could switch the way we think about abundance and prosperity?

Bob Proctor says there is an infinite source of supply. When you are dealing with infinite, you can never take more than your share.

How do we begin to make that switch? Focus on what you want in life, not what your current cirucumstances look like. It’s very easy to look at our current circumstances and fall into despair. So many people loosing their homes, their jobs. Don’t speak of poverty or debt, focus on solutions to make money. When you first look at this, you may think that I am splitting hairs but I am not. This alluded me for the longest time.

The law of attraction says that energy flows where attention goes, so if you focus on something, you will get more of that. So why focus on debt and always being broke? Focus on what you really want and make a clear picture of that in your mind.

So take some time today to think about what you really want. Write it down, say it to yourself. Carry that card with you and look at it often.


See what happens!

Susan Bonfiglio

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