Posts Tagged ‘Bob Proctor’

How Much is Enough?

Tuesday, December 23rd, 2008

How much is enough? How much do you need to feel like you are living in prosperity and abundance? Do you know? Do you think it is even possible?

I used to say that I need more money. I always needed more money. I was always coming from a position of lack. I used to joke that I had a disease called “fundsalow“: you know Funds Are Low! And that’s exactly what I got. I was always short of money!

So you can imagine my surprise when I first read You Were Born Rich by Bob Proctor and read that if you were to ask for “lotsa money” that that would not work because the subconscious mind does not know what “lotsa” is. The subconscious mind must accept whatever thoughts it is given and acts on it.

So I began to really take this lesson to heart. It is important to decide how much money you want to have. And dream big. Decide what it is you want and then ask yourself, why do you want this money? It is not enough to say that you want the money to live a better life. What will make your life better? Is it a new car? Bob recommends that you take your time with this and take out a piece of paper and write down all the things you want to spend the money on in the coming year. This is a perfect time to do this! Include your rent or mortgage, bills, vacation, savings…whatever you are going to spend money on.

Just thinking about what you want won’t make this happen. You must move into action! Find a coach to help you get what you want! Make 2009 the beginning of abundance and prosperity for you. You can do this!

If you are interested in finding out more about how to do this process and what Bob Proctor recommends on how to make this transition from a poverty mindset to a prosperity consciousness, sign up for my mailing list.  You can reach me by using the contact page on this blog.

I’d really love to begin a dialogue with you on how you are handling the issue of how much is enough?

If you want a free PDF copy of the You Were Born Rich book, email me at SusanBonfiglio.LifeSuccessConsultants.com and I will add you to the list and get your PDF copy right out to you. If you are interested in studying, Bob Proctor’s You Were Born Rich System, go to my website, www.SusanBonfiglio.LifeSuccessConsultants.com to find out more about it.

Susan Bonfiglio

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To Panic or Not To Panic….

Monday, October 13th, 2008

Last week we saw record low’s in the stock market. Panic has set in. I don’t know anyone who is feeling secure right now. I have been working on my feeligs of financial instability. I have made a decision not to focus on what I am seeing on the television. It is all bad news. And we all know that what we focus on expands. So, if all we do is pay attention to bad news and see collapse and despair everywhere, we will get more of that. What we are seeing is all about scarcity, that there are limited resources. That there is only one pie and that we all have to fight for our little piece of it. I believed that for many years.

When you come from a prosperity consciousness, there is more than one pie. There is unlimited pie. Bob Proctor always says that “when you are dealing with the infinite, you can never take more than your share.” I believe that. In our personal lives, the results that we get are directly correlated to what we had been thinking about up till then. Our thoughts create our feelings which in turn move us into action and create our results. The good news is that we can change our thinking anytime we want to.

The truth of the matter is that we are responsible for our financial futures. I know for myself that I have in the past given that responsibilty away. I was at effect of the job market, what my boss would pay me or who I gave power to control my IRA to. No more. Suze Orman was right! We have to take our financial lives in our own hands. We can do it. No one is going to care more about what happens to you than you. And the truth is, that even in this horrible economy, people will prosper. Why….because they don’t see the glass as half empty, they see opporunities.

So…think about it. You can go on drifting on the sea until you get beached by the economy or you can fight against the tide and look for opportunites that you never saw before.

Watch this video that has just been released Abraham On The World Financial Crisis – Esther & Jerry Hicks

Susan Bonfiglio

 

 

 

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The Secret Visualization Tool

Tuesday, August 19th, 2008

A prosperity consciousness was not something I grew up with. I grew up with statements like, “what do you think your last name is: Rockefeller!!!” or “money doesn’t grow on trees.” We all have paradigms about money. We all have messages we were told about money. What were yours?

 

I never really thought much about money. I have spent the first half of my career in the helping professions as a adolescent counselor and as a therapist. I used to joke that going to social work school was an entrance into poverty. And I suppose I really believed that but didnt’ care to change the focus of my work.

 

Bob Proctor helped me reframe my thinking about money. He said, “Money is only used for two things. One, it’s to make you comfortable, and the more comfortable you are, the more creative you will become. And the other purpose is it enables you to extend the service you provide far beyond your own presence.”

 

And he is right. It is hard to have a giving spirit, a spirit of opulence, when you are worried if you can keep your house or pay your bills. So many people today are struggling to make ends meet, to change the way they think about money.

 

The people from The Secret put out a visualization tool that I found very powerful. I include it here in case you want to revisit and revise your money paradigm.

 

Susan Bonfiglio

 

 

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Abundance is All Around

Thursday, August 14th, 2008

Abundance is here for all of us, we just have to know and believe that. Do you believe that?

We are all looking for time and money freedom. And it seems today, we have precious little of both. But what if we could switch the way we think about abundance and prosperity?

Bob Proctor says there is an infinite source of supply. When you are dealing with infinite, you can never take more than your share.

How do we begin to make that switch? Focus on what you want in life, not what your current cirucumstances look like. It’s very easy to look at our current circumstances and fall into despair. So many people loosing their homes, their jobs. Don’t speak of poverty or debt, focus on solutions to make money. When you first look at this, you may think that I am splitting hairs but I am not. This alluded me for the longest time.

The law of attraction says that energy flows where attention goes, so if you focus on something, you will get more of that. So why focus on debt and always being broke? Focus on what you really want and make a clear picture of that in your mind.

So take some time today to think about what you really want. Write it down, say it to yourself. Carry that card with you and look at it often.


See what happens!

Susan Bonfiglio

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